Tuesday, April 03, 2007

Blood clot and other depressing updates

Riley's right leg has been extremely swollen for the past couple of days. An ultrasound found a blood clot in his leg in the femoral vein--the same vein that was used during his past two cardiac catheterizations. He is already on a therapeutic dose of heparin (a blood thinner), so some of the doctors are talking about putting him on coumadin, an anticoagulant. Anyway, here are some other updates:


  1. Riley has been extremely tired. He has been sleeping most of the past two days and then also a good amount overnight as well. I was wondering if he has been extra tired because his oxygen saturation is so low post surgery--down in the low- to mid-70s, instead of in the mid- to high-90s prior to reversing his Fontan. No one seems concerned. They seem to think he's just recovering from "being run over by a truck twice."

  2. Reversing his Fontan and reverting him back to the Glenn circulation may not eliminate the protein-losing enteropathy (PLE). We thought that putting him back to the Glenn was a guarantee to get rid of PLE. However, that's not true. We are hoping that it will do the trick, but there have been another cases where PLE did not go away. We will know in a couple of months. Hopefully if it does not go away, we will be able to treat it medically with heparin injections or occasional albumen infusions.

  3. There is a lot of concern regarding Riley's nutrition. He has been taking less than 300 calories a day for the past couple of weeks (probably the whole month we've been here). We have started keeping a log of all food/drinks to get an actual number on calories. He may need to get IV nutrition. This is not necessarily a good thing. Apparently, IV nutrition can cause liver damage. Another option would be an NG tube--a tube threaded up his nose and down his throat into his stomach. Then high-calorie fluid would be pumped into this stomach. Neither of those options sound very appealing. His fluid allotment was bumped up to 1500 milliliters per day in an effort to get more calories in. However, more fluid in may lead to an increase in chest tube output.

  4. His chest tubes are still draining enough fluid to mess with the albumen and electrolyte levels in his blood. He is now getting 25 percent albumen replacements.

  5. The reason Dr. Karl did not put in the shunt during the Fontan reversal was because the extra blood flow through his heart would strain his already compromised valve. If his oxygen saturation does not land at an acceptable level (70 or higher), Riley may need to have the shunt put in (yes, that would mean more heart surgery). That would likely lead to valve failure and he would need that replaced. And recall that valve replacement means more valve replacement surgeries as he grows.

  6. We have also come to the realization that a heart transplant is not "one to two to three decades" away, as we always thought. Rather, reverting Riley to the Glenn makes it more likely that he will need a transplant in one to two to three years.

  7. Ken had read about another child online who had all the same surgeries Riley had an then was not a candidate for a transplant because of all the scar tissue in his chest. One of the doctors here told me that scar tissue does not preclude him from being eligible. However, every time he gets a blood product, his body builds antibodies. There comes a point where he has so many antibodies in his blood that it makes it very unlikely that a match will be found.

  8. Finally, to top off all of this depressing news, when I was talking with one of the doctors, he used some extremely disheartening language when talking about Riley and Riley's future. He said, "assuming that we are able to get Riley healthy enough to get him out of here." And I stopped him and said, what do you mean "assuming we can?" He basically said (and I guess we know this on some level), that there is no guarantee that Riley will get healthy enough to ever go home.

30 comments:

Anonymous said...

I can't believe this. Riley simply has to get better. And he will.

Anonymous said...

I am numb, feeling extremely angry and frustrated and helpess all in the same moments. Assumed that no news all day meant good news, man was that wrong. You are constantly in our thoughts and we will be there with you physically in two days. Still praying. Grammy Peg and Wayne

Anonymous said...

I don't really know what to say to the last post....breaking my heart :( While that maybe a possibility....it is ultimately GODS WILL that will decide.
Continuing to send positive thoughts and prayers your way.Lets continue with positive thinking.
Melinda N o'Boston

Anonymous said...

Our thoughts and prayers remain with you guys. Try your best to stay positive...for each other and for Riley.

Anonymous said...

Guys, I'm so sorry that the breaks don't seem to be coming. I can't imagine how s****y it is having these things thrown at you.
Whatever you do don't lose hope. Riley is such a little fighter, he came through last year's problems and there were moments when things looked bleak. He has a lust for life that we all have felt and that is what will bring him through. It must be hard to stay positive, but try thinking positive thoughts and that will give you strength. There are so many people pulling for Riley and his family; lean on their support and keep telling him you love him. That love will help him get healthy enough to leave that blinking hospital and go home where he belongs. As ever we love you.
The Lawrences
ps Whenever Carter needs a home for a day we're thrilled to have him (Ruby and Elsa keep asking when he and Riley are coming to stay again - I'll never forget Ruby asking 'can we keep Carter forever?' to which I replied Riley would miss him too much and as ever she had an answer 'well, Riley can come live with us too, I like Riley, he likes trains')

Anonymous said...

I just want to comment on that doctor's language ("assuming we can..."). My family has had some serious medical issues in the last few years, and one thing I've learned is that, sometimes, the most brilliant and talented medical professionals can also be the most insensitive people to talk to.

I mean, what could he have possibly hoped to accomplish by telling you that? Did he really believe that you didn't know the seriousness of the situation? That's just so coldly clinical. It really aggravates me.

And another thing: does he know how much of a fighter Riley is? Does he know how he fought to get off the ECMO last year when some thought he might not be able to recover? He's speaking in generalities without any regard for what a tough kid Riley is.

I apologize for that little rant, but it just rankles me when somebody in that doctor's position says something as incredibly obtuse and uncaring as that.

As for his slow recovery, I tend to agree with the others who say he's been "run over by a truck twice". Add to that his low caloric input and all the medications he's on, and it doesn't seem surprising that he's sleeping a lot.

As for the possible non-resolution of PLE and the prospect of more surgeries, we hope and pray that either the Glenn will work for him (didn't someone mention that there are adults on the Glenn?), or that some other option will become available in the next few years. I still have faith that the doctors will be able to find a long term solution for him.

As always, we're thinking about and praying for your whole family, nonstop.

Michael said...

I am so sorry for all the difficult news you received.
We will continue to hold Riley and the whole family in our thoughts.
Try to take one step at a time, as all the possibilities can be overwhelming. Based on our experiences, things are constantly changing.

Mother in Chief said...

It's true that the possibilities and the what-ifs can overwhelm a person. They have certainly overwhelmed me recently. And maybe they are blurring my optimism right now. But now that so many of those things we thought were distant possibilities actually have happened, it is hard to think that more rare and unexpected things won't happen. It is so hard to stay focused and positive when not a single thing has gone the way it was supposed to. Not. One. Single. Thing. I guess I feel fortunate that so many people out there are staying positive. I'll do my best to remember that and maybe, just maybe, it will rub off on me a bit. Mostly, Riley just needs a break, just something to get better. And maybe when I see that things actually can get a bit better, it will help me feel better too.

Shannon said...

I am sorry the news is bad. I had hoped it was a more gentle recovery process.

I know your doctors are excellent over there at UCSF but there seem to have been a few communication issues of late. You know, that the PLE may not be resolved?? That the fenestration may not work??? I know it is not our place to get angry on your behalf but it is frustrating.

It sounds as if there are a lot of "what ifs" going on. Let there be good surprises from here on in those cases.

You mentioned Ken read stories in which a child was not a candidate. You may be interested in reading the carepage of a boy who has recently had his second heart transplant and is home doing well. He is one day older than Riley. His carepage is Lorenzo Galarza.

I don't mean to swamp you with sentiment but things that look really bad can turn around.

Meanwhile, that doctor is a dork for speaking like that. Sorry, I had to say it.

Anonymous said...

I hear the frustration and agree you all deserve something to go easy and well ! I don't think it was using good bedside manner to talk to you like that...I'm sure you have thought of all possible scenarios lately and don't need anyone encouraging you to worry. All of us will stay positive for you and hope that things take a good turn and soon !! So sorry and wish I could make this all go away !! Joce

Andrea said...

This is horrible news. I am so so sorry. My heart aches for your family. Suzanne, I know its hard to stay positive (who could?) and I think you should allow yourself to feel sad and disappointed and desperate. Give yourself some time and just be there for Riley. Your family remains constantly in my thoughts and prayers.

swamps said...

hugs and hugs and hugs. hey, isaac used an NG tube when he was sick -- i think that is not such a bad option especially if riley is able to keep the food down. i think it's a better option than the iv nutrition stuff. with an NG tube he can get continuous nutrition even while he's asleep. that kid needs to heal, heal, heal, heal. he needs food, sleep and sh*tload of love. and what a lucky kid he has a lot of love coming from every which way. i sure see that with everyone's posts and comments. sending you all all my love.

Anonymous said...

Suazanne & Ken,

The three of you are in my constant prayers and I am so, so, sorry that Riley's recovery is unknown. I will continue to pray that Riley turns a corner for the better and he is restored to health. As a heart mom, I understand how each step backward feels like a devastating blow. Please know that both of you are entitled to whatever feelings you are experiencing right now and it's ok to express them. You are blessed with such a strong network of family and friends that can offer you the strength and love you both need right now. I will keep the three of you in my prayers and my heart. God Bless. ~ Laura Mulder

Anonymous said...

I know it's so very difficult to digest the "bad news" or unwanted results of tests but plese know that IT IS SO VERY POSSIBLE FOR RILEY TO HEAL AND GET WELL ENOUGH TO RETURN HOME!!!!! I know your both strong people but remember to find strength in every little good thing. Find happiness today in the fact that Riley is here with you, play his favorite music at his bed and find joy in watching him breathe.

Doctors have told me before that my son wouldn't make it through the night, I've witnessed the doctors trying to "shock" my son's heart back, and it seemed as though nothing was going right for my little boy and finally after 3 months his strength and blessings from above came through.

Baby steps is all....just one step at a time. If it's a step back, hold on and continue you have a little fighter with you.

With Love, Kimberlie Gamino

Anonymous said...

My prayers are with you during this hard time. I have no words that could possibly make you feel better or give you comfort. Just know many , many people are praying for Riley.

Anonymous said...

As sad as all this news is, I can't help but feel that the feeding tube may actually be a good thing (not the IV one - the regular tube in the nose). Maybe if he gets some high protein\high nutrition food in him, he can recover quicker.

When Jack gets the stomach flu and needs IV fluids (which has happened a few times now), he throws up everything and gets so weak... he's small for his age and he barely eats anything as it is, so when he can't\doesn't eat very much, he gets so weak and just sleeps and sleeps. Once he gets a little better and can eat again (without throwing up), it makes such a big difference in his energy and attitude.

I'm hopeing that if they do give him the feeding tube, it will give his tiny body some much needed nutrients and then hopefully he'll feel a little better and have the energy to heal himself. And doesn't he need a high protein diet to help curb the PLE (or did I read that wrong)? I thought I read that increasing the amount of protein in his diet can make a big difference with the PLE.

And you need to believe that he is coming home, because he will. It just takes time. Doctors do NOT know everything - they are just people like you and me, doing their job the best they can. They don't always have all the answers, and they are NOT fortune tellers - no one knows what will happen in the future. They can make a "best guess" that draws on their experience, but anything can happen.

Love you all and thinking about you all day...

-Kristina

Anonymous said...

So sorry to hear this latest news, I keep hoping for some sun on these dark days.

Just a quick note on the NG tube. I know the idea of it is so upsetting, our little Ramona has one. But now that she's had it for awhile I've come to feel very relieved knowing that her body is getting what it needs to grow and heal. And she doesn't have to spend her precious energy to get those calories.

For what it's worth, I no longer see the tubes (she's also on oxygen) when I look at her.

Praying without ceasing,

Jane, Ramona's mom
www.RamonaMae.com

Anonymous said...

So sorry about this. I had a suggestion. It was helpful for me during my moms last hospital stay. The social worker organized a team meeting with all key players in my moms team. It was so helpful to have everyone sit down together and get information that way. I then requested to speak with one or two key doctors daily. It was too hard talking to so many people because everyone had their own style of communication and I hated the ones that had to say well, she is a very sick woman, duh, we know that, please don't throw in these little comments, it doesn't help. So if you are finding the way you are getting info. from the team stressful, that is something that can hopefully be changed.
It just sounds like too much to handle but I know you have no choice but to take what is being thrown at you. I hope you can get a glimmer of hope soon.

Lisa

$ugarDaddy said...

Love you guys.

Anonymous said...

I wish I could give you all huge hugs. I wish I could say something to make it better. Please know there are so many of us out here pulling for Riley and all of you.

Jayne said...

I too wish I had the words to make you all feel even just a tiny bit better. We're all here as your and Riley's cheering section and we're keeping positive thoughts coming your way. So even when you feel low and have trouble feeling anything but blue, know that we're here to help and send that positive energy.

Riley is a fighter and that hasn't changed. He's been through so much that I'm sure his body just needs time... and maybe a bit more energy. The feeding tube could just give the whole situation the upkick it needs right now. I can't imagine being a bit stronger could hurt.

Love to you all and all my prayers for some good steps forward. God knows you all deserve it.

Anonymous said...

I found a link to your blog on Sophia's site (iheartsophia).

I've been reading your posts & I will keep Riley & your family in my thoughts & prayers.

$ugarDaddy said...

I noticed this on the BBC.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/6517645.stm

AJ said...

Endurance. Riley has it. His parents have it too. You can get through this.

nettesky said...

Just wanted to let you know we're thinking of you, and sending over all kinds of positive thoughts and such.

Hang in there and get better, Riley. Happy Birthday.

hugs,
Dave & Annette

Karyn said...

I found you through Sophia's blog and I was so saddened to read your last post. I will be sending my prayers and thoughts in your family's direction. I hope things turn out well for all of you.

The Floods said...

I don't know what to say. It is so painful to read of Riley's struggle.
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Our daughter, Ryleigh, sends you 'big hugs'.

Wade, Melissa and Ryleigh - Kansas City, MO

Anonymous said...

My mom told me about Riley. I am a cousin of his maternal grandmother, though I have never met Gail. (Gayle?- see, I don't even know how she spells her name; we were on opposite coasts). I will be praying for this precious child, and for you, his parents and his younger brother.
Rebecca Ifland, daughter of Nadine Jarand Davies

Terri and Fam said...

Through Sammy's page we have come to yours and have begun praying for you. How we know your frustration and pain. We lost our son to the Fontan almost 1 year ago. We are praying that this reversal will make your son Riley better and that his heart function will improve and he can hold off on the transplant and God will provide a miracle of healing.

Terri Grabb
www.grabbfamily.com

Anonymous said...

N. of Boston wishing you all Blessings this Easter,and hoping no news is good news!
Love to you all! Melinda