Monday, April 03, 2006

Still not himself

Riley is still withdrawn but we're seeing some slight improvements. He is now making eye contact with Mom and Dad, but saying very little. We are trying to get the nurses to batch all of their procedures together so he will be left alone as much as possible. An hour ago they gave him his oral medicines (digoxin, amoxicillin and tylenol), IV meds (lasix), took his vitals, emptied his drains and changed his dressings and now they should be able to leave him alone for several hours. We're also going to talk to the child life specialist again today about ways to make him feel more like himself. We didn't bother with the birthday celebrations yesterday since he wasn't at all interested. The hospital brought by cake, a big banner and a present but we've stashed it away until he feels better. His birthday celebration can wait until he's ready.

A few days ago Suzanne experienced a scare when Riley's uncovered incision popped open after he was picking at it. He wasn't in any danger but it certainly isn't pretty to look at. Fortunately the underlying bone is wired shut. They just leave the wound open to treat, inserting wet dressings into the wound every 12 hours and covering with a light bandage. As a precautionary measure they put him on some Vancomycin to conquer staphylococcus (staph infection) although there are no visual signs of infection and the wound looks very clean. If the cultures come back clean they'll discontinue the Vancomycin since it can have kidney-related side effects.

Riley spent a few hours in a special chair yesterday and Saturday, and will spend some more time in it today. Getting him up and moving about is critical to drainage and a good recovery. He's in a very weakened state and has a hard time keeping his head up so the physical therapist will come by today with some more recommendations. It's difficult to get him sitting up with the pigtail drain in place. It's attached to a drainage box about the size of a cheap VCR. They're looking at more mobile replacements.

Yesterday we noticed that the pigtail drainage was taking on a more milky consistency. We'd been watching for this as a sign of chylous fluid since Riley had eaten some foods with fats (milk, french fries and crackers). Sure enough, it looks like Riley does have chylothorax as anticipated. That means we need to put him on a low-fat diet for the next six weeks until his lymph nodes can heal. Given all that we've been through, chylothorax isn't all that bad.

6 comments:

swamps said...

Isaac was on the ecmo for 9 days and during that time he was on a ton of drugs like morphine and such... he developed quite the addiction and had to go on the methadone program. I guess I was just wondering if Riley could be feeling crappy as a result of all those drugs he'd been on... Granted he wasn't on them nearly as long as Isaac...

Well, thanks again for all these updates. It will be so nice once the lad starts to smile again. :-)

Anonymous said...

HEY Riley needs time to learn to trust everyone again and I am sure he feels lousy besides. He will come around abd an wondering about all the side effects of his medications. I hope Mommy, Daddy and Grampy are all taking some time to find nourishment from food and fresh air. Wish I were there to help. Know I love you and am there in spirit and thought. Love Grammy

Anonymous said...

Ken & Suzanne,

I've been following Riley's fontan journey through this weblog and praying for all of you daily. I'm so glad to see he's turned the corner. Noah, who is almost 11 now, had his fontan when he just turned 3. A few days after extubation, he became very irritable and in a depressed-like state. We thought he would enjoy a visit from his older sisters but he screamed when he saw them and told them to leave. The staff indicated that this was due to the trauma of the surgery and the medications in his body (dopamine being one of them). He picked up gradually; however, he still wasn't himself for quite some time after his hospital release. Many of us heart parents have witnessed similar experiences such as Riley's. You can't blame our little guys for what they've been through. Hang in there - you two have been amazing advocates for Riley.

God Bless,
Laura Mulder - Children's Heart Fund

Anonymous said...

This reaction is very normal. Regression is to be expected and he will come arouond in his own time. I know its not easy on you guys. In some ways the medical aspect seems a walk in the park compared to the emotional rejection and frustration that he's presenting with. Give it time. Ask the child life specialist if they have someone who does music therapy or if they have someone in to see the children (ie:performers etc) to lighten the mood. Some hospitals do and you just have to ask. Also possibly "pet therapy" where they have animals visit patients with the ok from your MD's,...though I'm not sure if they'd be concerned with this immune system. But i can't hurt to ask. That might help take his mind off of things.
Hope this helps
-dave and marisa

Anonymous said...

It must be frustrating dealing with Riley's misery, it must be frustrating for him too, he can't possibly understand what is happening to him and it is pretty awful. I know it's no consolation but kids always take things out on the people they feel most safe with and that's you two and Grampy. He'll come through it and be back to his normal fabulous self - just try and remember that side of him to get you through the difficult days.
We're thinking of you and as soon as my bug has definitely definitely gone away we'll be back in to see you.
All our love
Jude, Christian, Ruby and Elsa

Anonymous said...

Ken, Suzanne, and Riley,

The EDD's continue to send our prayers and love to all of you. I can just say your strength has been amazing and you're all on the right track - keep on keepin on!

Eric and Elizabeth